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  • donfish06 said...

    I'm getting married in June, and my Fiance has no interest in football. Being the amazing woman that she is she went to the Spring Game with me because she knows that I love it. She even runs cold all the time, so I know she was freezing, and she didnt complain once.

    What I need help with is getting her to actually enjoy tOSU football! Even though I know she would sit through it all for me, I dont want her to be miserable, as it should be an awesome time we can share together. Has anyone had experience winning the Mrs. over to the Light Side??

    If they win, then she gets to go shopping at the Easton Mall or some other stores. It will cement your marriage and she will become a passionate TOSU fan.

    MCM

  • Football Saturday isn't always about the game for some fans. My wife was a Buckeye but not a football fan. She didn't go to the games until we were married b/c she had no interest in the game. She now can watch and understand the game for the most part, but what she loves is the tailgating and socializing. Sometimes I wonder if we would be ahead just to sell her ticket so she can stay at the tailgate and chat. Tell her to go to a real game and tailgate like Nebraska this fall before she forms an opinion of Buckeye football

    hessel24

  • donfish06 said...

    I'm getting married in June, and my Fiance has no interest in football. Being the amazing woman that she is she went to the Spring Game with me because she knows that I love it. She even runs cold all the time, so I know she was freezing, and she didnt complain once.

    What I need help with is getting her to actually enjoy tOSU football! Even though I know she would sit through it all for me, I dont want her to be miserable, as it should be an awesome time we can share together. Has anyone had experience winning the Mrs. over to the Light Side??

    Let fall Saturdays be her time with the girls, that way you get to watch the Buckeye game in peace or with friends. Seriously, starting at the end of every August, the rule in the Patel household is that Mrs. leaves by 8 so I can enjoy Gameday, etc., and is gone through the end of whenever the game ends. If she takes baby boy with her, cool, if not, he and I watch the Bucks together, and I manage his nap schedule.

    Some days, it simply is better to lead a separate life for the day. Fall Saturdays are one of them.

    Badger Alumni, Lifelong Buckeye.

    Frozen Buckeye

  • You're sorry now, but some day you'll be glad she doesn't like it. This will be your excuse to get out of the house when its too cold to fish or play golf.

    Additional bonus: You get to assign some stupid and gay activity that SHE likes to do as "hers", so you can get out of going shopping with her, the theater, etc.....

    So be careful what you wish for!

    Love2H8Blue

  • donfish06 said...

    I'm getting married in June, and my Fiance has no interest in football. Being the amazing woman that she is she went to the Spring Game with me because she knows that I love it. She even runs cold all the time, so I know she was freezing, and she didnt complain once.

    What I need help with is getting her to actually enjoy tOSU football! Even though I know she would sit through it all for me, I dont want her to be miserable, as it should be an awesome time we can share together. Has anyone had experience winning the Mrs. over to the Light Side??

    I married my wife last Sept. and she has no interest in sports, and I mean like only interest is Lamar Odom because he is marries to that Sheman Karadshian.

    There are 3 things I do to help.

    1) Alcohol -- Have drinks and she will come.
    2) Clothes -- She is in retail so I try and buy her "fashionable" sports clothes.
    3) When all else fails bribe her with a purse!!!

    All though it sounds rough I wouldn't change it for the world, even though my sports watching has been cut down significantly.

    Good Luck with all the wedding plans!!!

    Woodrow53

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    buckeyes4life

  • I've been married 45 years (this coming June) and my bride is an OSU alum. She had no interest in 1967-68 when we were dating and STILL has no interest. Fortunately, she gives me my Saturdays from noon to 11:00 PM. I give her the other six days. Works great!

    dmorris

  • donfish06 said...

    we don't drink...

    You will find it harder to explain football to someone whose mind is not altered. With a few drinks she will more likely see the genius in you. Worked for me.

    huffy

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  • I'm getting married this Saturday and I do have some helpful advice. My fiance is an OSU grad and works for OSU in the medical field. We get season tickets and we go to every game. She knows I enjoy it and she wants to go along because I WANT TO GO. If it were up to her we would sell the tickets.

    1. Include her in some sporting stuff, not just football
    2. Bring her along slowly, don't over do it.
    3. Make it social, have some drinks when ur watching the games.
    4. Most important of all-----let her ask questions and don't talk "down" to her. Let her figure some stuff out on her own and ask you questions!

    Good Luck!

    bourney22

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    Duane

  • donfish06 said...

    I'm getting married in June, and my Fiance has no interest in football. Being the amazing woman that she is she went to the Spring Game with me because she knows that I love it. She even runs cold all the time, so I know she was freezing, and she didnt complain once.

    What I need help with is getting her to actually enjoy tOSU football! Even though I know she would sit through it all for me, I dont want her to be miserable, as it should be an awesome time we can share together. Has anyone had experience winning the Mrs. over to the Light Side??

    Yes. My wife could care less about football. In fact she is from Lincoln, Nebraska. To get a handle on the situation, I've learned the true meaning of compromise. During the season she puts up with my watching OSU football. And in the off-season I watch Househunters and Design On a Fucking Dime with her. Yikes! It sucks, but it works. Good luck pal.

    And congrats.

    Buck75

  • huffy said...

    You will find it harder to explain football to someone whose mind is not altered. With a few drinks she will more likely see the genius in you. Worked for me.

    true. i was jk. marriage is like everything else. there are good and bad days. If you don't love it at first, it'll grow on you.

    BucknutsFan465

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    olref129665

  • Find some classy tailgates...with other couples, women she can befriend...also...let her know you appreciate her actions...show interest in something she likes...what goes around, comes around.

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    FlaBuckeye1

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    criddle

  • Get her to enjoy the back story. Ler her know who the players are as people- or at least what we are told they are like through the media. She will watch and cheer on a specific person which is much less abstract than cheering on a team. It'll be like reality TV to her.....My wife enjoys the home town stories/ overcoming the odds/family stories etc...Craft, Sullinger, Heyward, Miller, Shazier......if she sees how happy it makes you; she'll enjoy it too.

    This post was edited by bbuck on 4/24/2012 at 6:30 PM

    bbuck

  • watch the games with a group, tallgate and if you take a bus trip to an away game and if that doesn't do anything rethink the marriage thin.

    Quaddad

  • I've been married 5 years and my wife will stick around till half time on the big games and then I'm on my own. Hopefully I can get my daughter on board in a few years she is 2 right now!

    bucknut73

  • donfish06 said...

    we don't drink...

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  • Ohio State has a women's clinic in June. See if she wants to go.

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    mikemohr

  • First mistake was to take her to this spring game. It was a great experience for you, but her first experience should be pleasant weather, cool stuff like TBDBITL with a Script, good tailgating and decent tickets. Sounds like she's open to be a part of your Saturday's, make it as easy and fun as possible for her. If that fails, make sure your kids play a brass instrument and try out for the OSUMB. If they make the band, she'll be lined up in front of St. John Arena at 7 am game day.

    pburger

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    donfish06

  • Just tell her if she will watch football, you will give her sex a couple times a day! Win-win situation as I see it.

    jdawg1