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Were You Ever Bullied As a Kid?

  • I was bullied in kindergarten by a girl..It was unbearable..She took my crayons. paste,my baseball cards, my favorite apple pie at lunch..I even brought 2 apple pies for lunch-Amy took both pies..No self respecting 5yr boy reports to his teacher that a girl is bullying him... Amy made me walk her home after-school which indeed workout rather well...she was the perfect bodyguard..Amy was also cheerleader in HS and my date on prom night.

    gessig

  • I was the smallest kid in my class when I was in first grade...and was still the smallest kid at graduation from high school...but I was also a very good athlete, so the older I got the less it happened...but I certainly was bullied but my old man just wouldn't hear of it...he always said, you pick up whatever you can and do whatever you need to do...and he meant it...he recommended small tree limbs but that wasnt always available...I took my share of asswhippins but I NEVER backed down and because I didnt back down, I earned respect and would be left alone...some of the best friends in my lifetime were mortal enemies when we first met...the two experiences I remember most is being a sixth-grader at the school bus stop one winter morning and being god-damned tired of being bullied by this eighth grade neighborhood punk who was at least 8-10 inches taller and outweighed me by 60-70 pounds...this SOB was relentless with me but for some reason I wasnt taking his bullshit anymore...he started in and I just went completely apeshit...hit him as hard as I could right in the mouth, pulled his jacket over his head and proceeded to whip his fuckin ass to a pulp, kicking him to a bloody mess right there...the second one was a "staged" fight in front of a few hundred people set up by my old man who got permission from this other kids probation officer to fight (he and my Dad played bigtime softball together)...NO SHIT...we pummeled each other with permission and in front of my parents and his probation officer and a couple hundred other people...anyway, I was left alone by this kid and his punk friends (one of whom would kill a cop 3 years later)...

    Bottomline...BULLIES HATE BEING BULLIED...pass that on to your kids and grandkids...it will make their life easier

    roxannereggie

  • gessig said...

    I was bullied in kindergarten by a girl..It was unbearable..She took my crayons. paste,my baseball cards, my favorite apple pie at lunch..I even brought 2 apple pies for lunch-Amy took both pies..No self respecting 5yr boy reports to his teacher that a girl is bullying him... Amy made me walk her home after-school which indeed workout rather well...she was the perfect bodyguard..Amy was also cheerleader in HS and my date on prom night.

    So did you eventually get to take her pie? :)

    bones10

  • Yeah--then I kissed her and she left me alone...

    luckylokuta

  • I think everyone has at some point in life. Fortunately, my situation happened when i was in 3rd grade.

    The first year i moved to ohio, everyone was REALLY cool, with the exception of these two kids who did not like me for whatever reason.

    I would walk home from school taking shortcuts through back yards and, coincidentally, had to walk by one of those kids back yards every day. Well they finally got wise to this and started waiting for me. They would throw shit at me and another kid i became really good friends with from his back yard and eventually started chasing us.

    Well one day my backpack was full of books so i didnt have the mobility i usually have and they caught up to us. They started picking on my buddy, one went even as far as to swing a broken piece of fence he had picked up along the way at me. I had had enough. I grabbed the arm he was swinging with, twisted it and hip tossed his little ass over my shoulder and popped him in the mouth. I asked the kid picking on my friend if he wanted to be next. They both ran off never to screw with us again. I guess all the former years of tae kwon do as a child payed off. I am so passive i never really thought i would ever have to use any of that in my life.

    As i got older, i began to work out like a savage. I think my size alone deterred any of that from happening again.

    Coincidentally the two kids that bullied me when i was younger, ended up playing baseball with me in highschool; we ended up good friends by the end of oour senior year.

    Moral of the story: Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. People will respect you for it. Especially when those people see that you are being picked on for no good reason.

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  • I'm sure I was bullied and picked on somewhat, I'm only 31 so my memory should still be good, but nothing really sticks out in my mind as overly bad. I'm sure I also did my share of picking on kids. I do know I never physically bullied anyone. I was always taught to stand up for myself if someone was physically threatening me but if it was verbal, to suck it up and blow it off. They were only words. I never was in a fight from bullying, a few pushes exchanged here and there, but never escalated.
    Like most have said, you have to stand up for yourself. If that means punching a bully that is pushing you around, then so be it. However if a kid is verbally assaulting you, let It go. They are words....chances are coming from a kid who has detention 3 days a week and no one you would want to associate yourself with.
    I don't understand the youth of today. Hell not even all youths. My brother is 27 years old and is as mentally strong as a 10 year old....most of his friends are that way too. Heaven forbid something not go there way. It's the Ind of the world. We protect our youth so much now. Protect them from feeling defeat....youth leagues don't keep score. Protection from failing.....some school now wont give out letter grades because it makes some kids feel bad. And physical protection is all out.....I see kids in my neighborhood dressed like a damn goalie to ride their bike.

    luthershot 8

  • Hell yeah! If you didn't stand up for yourself it was going to be a long life in the neighborhood i grew up in. You didn't have to win the fight, but to keep the bullies away you had to at least fight back or roll with a posse 10 deep with fighters in it LOL. The bullies always gravitated towards the kids who gave them the least resistance to ass kicking.

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    coolrahski

  • swords81 said...

    Why would you call bullshit? You think a guy growing up in the 40's and 50's never hit someone with a punch that could knock him out? I don't know the poster, but I have no reason to doubt him. It isn't like he said he shot laser beams out of his eyes and the kid he knocked out shit unicorns for a week. Everyone is so damn cynical these days...

    "I grabbed the guy by the shirt and said don't be late". You can't tell me you believe that...

    Maybe he did hit one of them, but I'm guessing a large portion of the story has been embellished as time has passed. As is the case with most physical altercations...

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    osubuck3

  • Never really been bullied, but was physically threatened by older kids in the hood. Not a big problem. By todays standards I was tormented without mercy. LOL The definition of bullying has really changed.

    HuskerBuckeye

  • SorryOSUbuck 3 and Zooter 77, what I posted happened exactly as I wrote it. I did not mention places, the school and neighborhoods. I am 73 years old today and a lot wiser..(and a lot bigger too).but back then I learned early not to back down to cowards and bullies.....the secret was that I was not afraid of them or their bulling tacics.The neighborhood I grew up in had guys we ran with played ball wiht and hung around around would not let you be a "wossey"....so as I entered Jr High school I was ready for anything. And I did tell the guy "don't be late" to show him I was not afraid of his threats.....and OSUbuck 3...I don't appreciate the "BS" remark....my posts aren't BS and I don't appreciate them being called that.....why not try and add something to the board instead of downing a guys post like that...not a smooth move son....

    This post was edited by Bigjimmie on 4/16/2012 at 2:07 PM

    Bigjimmie

  • never really got bullied much in school. I was always one of the bigger kids in my class and kids who got bullied were usually the smaller weaker kids.

    I only recall once in my school year of getting bullied. I was in third grade and I had just started school at Beverly Gardens Elementary. There was this kid named Dougie who lived down the street from me and he was kind of on the small side. However he chummed around with about 3 older kids who were a grade higher than me. Since he lived on my street he would walk home from school the same route as I would. And if he happened to encouter me, Dougie would always start a fight with me and then his friends would get behind or beside me and randomly punch/kick me. It always ended up with me on the ground and all four of them laughing while they punched on me or kicked me. This went on for about a week. I told my parents about it and the told me to get a big stick and beat the shit out of them. So I took one of my fathers buck knives he used to skin deer with and pocketed it for the walk home. Dougie and his bunch found me but instead of fists, I pulled out the knife and opened it up. I fully intended to kill Dougie and anyone else I could get my hands on. Suddenly it wasn't so much fun when they realized that I wasn't just showing the knife to scare them. I cut Dougie's forearm pretty good but not as bad as I would've liked. They decided to run away. I don't know what he told his parents about his arm but I never got in trouble for it.

    I carried that knife with me all that year. Dougie and his friends didn't mess with me anymore. If they had then I would've killed them or at least tried my best to do so.

    I grew up and became a pretty large guy. But my size isn't why I think people don't try to take advantage of me by intimidation. I think its the fact that I am not afraid of anyone or anything. That isn't to say I can't get my ass kicked. I'm just saying nobody scares me and niether does taking a beating. You may whip me but you are not getting out of it unscarred. People instinctively pick up on who are the predators and who are the prey. I think of it like dog psychology. If you present confidence and strength, you get submission. If you present weakness and fear along with indecision then you get back aggression. I'm almost always the alpha.

    "The only thing That Team Up North will be tasting this year is the salty tears of defeat" - UFM

    Gobucks187TTUN

  • Bigjimmie said...

    SorryOSUbuck 3 and Zooter 77, what I posted happened exactly as I wrote it. I did not mention places, the school and neighborhoods. I am 73 years old today and a lot wiser..(and a lot bigger too).but back then I learned early not to back down to cowards and bullies.....the secret was that I was not afraid of them or their bulling tacics.The neighborhood I grew up in had guys we ran with played ball wiht and hung around around would not let you be a "wossey"....so as I entered Jr High school I was ready for anything. And I did tell the guy "don't be late" to show him I was not afraid of his threats.....and OSUbuck 3...I don't appreciate the "BS" remark....my posts aren't BS and I don't appreciate them being called that.....why not try and add something to the board instead of downing a guys post like that...not a smooth move son....

    Please stop bullying me!

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    osubuck3

  • Never. I was always the baddest, biggest, and toughest cat at any school I ever attended. flex

    This post was edited by MannekenPis on 4/16/2012 at 2:36 PM

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    MannekenPis

  • I graduated in 2001 so i guess that puts this story in 1997 my freshman year in high school. I was the new kid and a senior came over to me and the other new kid. He told me to give him my lunch money which i did not happened in real life. I thought it was a movie thing. So i refused. He demanded it a couple more times. I refused more and he went on to the other new kid. The other kid did not refuse and after that became a regular. If you just stand up for yourself most will back off.

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    “Defeat is a state of mind; no one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality.” - Bruce Lee

    Ohioboy33

  • Cut you "BS" remarks and I will....I have posted on Bucknuts and this board since 2007, over or near about 5000 posts and never has one of my posts been called BS You might want to consider that wiht others as you take your 255 posts down the road....

    Bigjimmie

  • Bigjimmie said...

    Cut you "BS" remarks and I will....I have posted on Bucknuts and this board since 2007, over or near about 5000 posts and never has one of my posts been called BS You might want to consider that wiht others as you take your 255 posts down the road....

    Are we measuring di**s? 5,000 posts?? The number next to ur name shows 1088. Embellishing more are we?

    Why are you so angry that I don't believe your story? If its true you shouldn't care what anyone thinks...

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    osubuck3

  • Not only am I well endowed, but I can pee further and with more accuracy than any of you!

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    60% of the time, it works every time...

    playmea

  • osubuck3 said...

    "I grabbed the guy by the shirt and said don't be late". You can't tell me you believe that...

    Maybe he did hit one of them, but I'm guessing a large portion of the story has been embellished as time has passed. As is the case with most physical altercations...

    Yea this story isn't real lol! Guy took a punch in which he ducked easily and then he put him to sleep with an upper cut... Really? I've never seen an uppercut used in a real fight lol. The story just sounds a little too much like a movie. "I grabbed the guy by the shirt and said don't be late". - classic

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    GetYaWeigtUp

  • The Bucknuts board started a few years ago and switched over to 247 later(2-3 years)..they did not carry over the post totals, but started anew............and I really don't care what you may think osubuck3, but on this board, no one needs to be told his post is BS, even if you believe that or not....its not what is done here...you have the right to your opinion you might want to express it more congenial maybe next time...its an insult to tell some one they are "embellishing" their post or accounts....I don't get angry.......I have gotten even before.........lets let this go......not going anywhere profitable....

    Bigjimmie

  • osubuck3 said...

    Are we measuring di**s? 5,000 posts?? The number next to ur name shows 1088. Embellishing more are we?

    Why are you so angry that I don't believe your story? If its true you shouldn't care what anyone thinks...

    Although I believe bigjimmie's story, I do agree that people's worthiness shouldn't be dictated by the number of posts they have. So because you enjoy typing more it makes you more important or something? Maybe someone having less posts just means they have a life outside of Bucknuts?

    shoeview

  • I think everyone has been bullied in some fashion. Just the way the world is. I just cannot see taking a permanent solution (suicide) to a temporary problem (bullying). I was taught to deal with it in some way by my parents... either fight or turn the other cheek. I was small and skiny, but same as everyone else... you throw down and win or lose you get left alone because you are not an easy target. Switching schools is brutual because you have to do it all over most of the time. Got to HS and sports really mattered and bullying took a slight backseat, so even though I was still small I gained some respect of teammates and it spread.

    Too much PC these days and it forces kids to take it until they snap and bring a gun to school. Expelling a kid for defending himself causes the problem the media sees these days IMHO (if going to get expelled, might as well go out with a bang thought process). Also, everyone being told they are winners all the time cannot help once the real world starts to take effect and they have no experience in losing or being uncool.

    KnoxvilleNick

  • Gobucks187TTUN said...

    never really got bullied much in school. I was always one of the bigger kids in my class and kids who got bullied were usually the smaller weaker kids.

    I only recall once in my school year of getting bullied. I was in third grade and I had just started school at Beverly Gardens Elementary. There was this kid named Dougie who lived down the street from me and he was kind of on the small side. However he chummed around with about 3 older kids who were a grade higher than me. Since he lived on my street he would walk home from school the same route as I would. And if he happened to encouter me, Dougie would always start a fight with me and then his friends would get behind or beside me and randomly punch/kick me. It always ended up with me on the ground and all four of them laughing while they punched on me or kicked me. This went on for about a week. I told my parents about it and the told me to get a big stick and beat the shit out of them. So I took one of my fathers buck knives he used to skin deer with and pocketed it for the walk home. Dougie and his bunch found me but instead of fists, I pulled out the knife and opened it up. I fully intended to kill Dougie and anyone else I could get my hands on. Suddenly it wasn't so much fun when they realized that I wasn't just showing the knife to scare them. I cut Dougie's forearm pretty good but not as bad as I would've liked. They decided to run away. I don't know what he told his parents about his arm but I never got in trouble for it.

    I carried that knife with me all that year. Dougie and his friends didn't mess with me anymore. If they had then I would've killed them or at least tried my best to do so.

    I grew up and became a pretty large guy. But my size isn't why I think people don't try to take advantage of me by intimidation. I think its the fact that I am not afraid of anyone or anything. That isn't to say I can't get my ass kicked. I'm just saying nobody scares me and niether does taking a beating. You may whip me but you are not getting out of it unscarred. People instinctively pick up on who are the predators and who are the prey. I think of it like dog psychology. If you present confidence and strength, you get submission. If you present weakness and fear along with indecision then you get back aggression. I'm almost always the alpha.

    Wow! Have you had counseling since?

    zooter77

  • Bigjimmie said...

    SorryOSUbuck 3 and Zooter 77, what I posted happened exactly as I wrote it. I did not mention places, the school and neighborhoods. I am 73 years old today and a lot wiser..(and a lot bigger too).but back then I learned early not to back down to cowards and bullies.....the secret was that I was not afraid of them or their bulling tacics.The neighborhood I grew up in had guys we ran with played ball wiht and hung around around would not let you be a "wossey"....so as I entered Jr High school I was ready for anything. And I did tell the guy "don't be late" to show him I was not afraid of his threats.....and OSUbuck 3...I don't appreciate the "BS" remark....my posts aren't BS and I don't appreciate them being called that.....why not try and add something to the board instead of downing a guys post like that...not a smooth move son....

    I have no doubt that this is how you remember this happening, but over 60 years the details may be a bit foggy and maybe you hollywooded it up a bit. I beat up a bully too, but I just closed my eyes and started windmilling and he went down like the coward he was. I am sure when I tell the story to my friends I make it sound a little better.

    zooter77

  • GenieCarb said...

    I think everyone has to some degree.

    When I hear about these kids committing suicide, I kept thinking to myself what the hell is going on these days? It finally occurred to me that in the world of facebook and other social networking sites, these kids are getting bullied at school, then they are going home to get bullied on the computer until they go to bed. They have no escape like the kids who grew up in your time and my time did. Very sad how this is going.

    Plus...kids are not encouraged to "stick up for themselves" really. They are told to do everything they can to just walk away. That, unfortunately, doesn't make as much of a point when your 10 as it does when your 40.

    I agree to some degree Genie, but, it seems that in dealing with this, parents want to blame every possible thing except themselves. I hate to stoop to the level of quoting Eminem, but he hit the nail on the head when he said, "They want to blame it on Marilyn (Manson) and the heroin... but where were the parents at?"

    I understand that a lot of things are beyond a parents control, but in truth, there's a lot of folks out there who are either not equipped to be parents, or are simply bad parents even though they have every advantage they'd ever need. It kills me when I see a dad screaming at his 4 year old for dropping his iPhone on the train. It kills me when an Edina soccer mom goes ape shit on her kid for dropping cheerios into her Louis Vuitton. It kills me when I see a teenager so disconnected from his parents that he feels that there's no other way to get by besides a bullet in the back of the throat.

    Your kid is getting bullied on facebook? Be a parent and help them learn to use the tools at their disposal to deal with it. TALK to your kids. Teach them to have a thick skin and a quick wit. Still having problems? Take it up with the other children's parents, or even school authorities. There's lots of ways to address this problem, and while I do feel that it is a legitimate one, I feel that one of the primary reasons it has spiraled out of control is because of a lack of parenting & parenting values.

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